Michelle Richards

New seasons, new challenges…just faith

chellejd — Sun, 11 Jan 2009 19:35:56 +0000

I have been absent from the blogsphere for a while now. Our family has had some big decisions to make the past few months, that will overall effect my ministry to children and families. My husband has been the youth pastor at our church, Dutch Fork Christian Church, for the past 7 years – where I have currently served as Children’s Minister. We are going to enter a new season in our life as he has accepted a position with North Point Community Church to plant a Strategic Partner location here in Columbia, SC. His last day at our home church was actually today and as of tomorrow he is full-time lead pastor of Columbia Church. We are first and foremost humbled by what God is doing in our loves. NEVER did we think we would be leading a church, let alone one with the name “North Point” connected to it. We are excited about what God is going to do in our city and through us. This means that I will be stepping down from my current position at Dutch Fork as Children’s Minister prior to launch. We’re looking to launch Sept. 2009 and I will resign effective June. At the same time as this we are adding a new blessing to our family, baby Richards #3, who is due the beginning of June.

So as we step into this new season of our life we are excited and full of anticipation and faith with what God is going to do. I will no longer be posting on this blog as I will be eventually leaving the ministry world to simply serve my husband and the church God has called us to and to minister to our growing family. If you’re still interested in following our journey as a family, this wild adventure we’re starting on, and my personal ramblings, you can follow my other blog: Mommy Needs Coffee. (http://www.mommyneedscoffee.wordpress.com)

Hello, I’m Michelle. I’m a …

chellejd — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 18:19:40 +0000

church planter’s wife.

That’s right, as of January 11th, I will be a full-time church planter’s wife. JD announced his resignation to our church today as we open this new chapter in our lives.

So that also anserws a bit as to why I haven’t been blogging the past few months. God has been moving us in this direction, starting this past February. When there’s something so BIG and heavy, and God-ordained, yet you cannot speak of it outside certain circles, it became difficult to blog. Over the course of the next few days, I’ll share some more information regarding what’s going on, what we’re doing, what this means for my children’s ministry, info on the pregnancy, and just an update to our lives.

Stay tuned.

messy spirituality

chellejd — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 13:32:11 +0000

God is rocking my world right now and I love it! I am craving his Word more than I crave Starbucks! It seems like daily I am reading the Bible at every opportunity I have and I can’t get enough. At the same time I am reading an awesome book, “Messy Spirituality” by Michael Yaconelli. If you haven’t read this book, run, don’t walk to the bookstore and BUY it!!! It is hitting me right where I am at — God loves us because of the messy, unperfect lives we live. A few points fro the book:

Spirituality is not a formula; it is not a test. It is a relationship. Spirituality is not about competency; itis about intimacy. Spirituality is not about perfection; it is about connection. The way of a spiritual life begins where we are now in the mess of our lives. Accepting the reality of our broken, flawed lives is the beginning of spirituality not because the spiritual life will remove our flaws but because we let go of seeking perfection and, instead, seek God, the one who is present in the tangledness of our lives. Spirituality is not aboutbeing fixed; it is about God’s being present in the mess of our unfixedness.

Messy Spirituality has the audacity to suggest that messiness is the workshop of authentic spirituality, the greenhouse of faith, the place where the real Jesus meets the real us.

I LOVE it! Stay tuned for more snippets from the book and if you’ve read it — comment and let me know your thoughts!

lyrics speaking to me…

chellejd — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 18:12:30 +0000

This song, Whatever You’re Doing, by Sanctus Real has just been speaking to my heart. It’s amazing that we have a God who know at all times what is best for us and continually moves within us. I love thinking of the illustration of being clay with God being the potter –

Isaiah 64:8

8 Yet, O LORD, you are our Father.
We are the clay, you are the potter;
we are all the work of your hand.

Just remembering that we are the work of His hand. We were created to glorify God, praise God, and to reflect God’s love. He wants to renew us daily to being us closer to Him and closer to looking like Him.

Whatever You’re Doing - Sanctus Real

It’s time for healing time to move on
It’s time to fix what’s been broken too long
Time make right what has been wrong
It’s time to find my way to where I belong
There’s a wave that’s crashing over me
All I can do is surrender

[Chorus]
Whatever you’re doing inside of me
It feels like chaos somehow there’s peace
It’s hard to surrender to what I can’t see
but I’m giving in to something heavenly

Time for a milestone
Time to begin again
Revaluate who I really am
Am I doing everything to follow your will
or just climbing aimlessly over these hills
So show me what it is you want from me
I give everything I surrender…
To…

[Chorus]

Time to face up
Clean this old house
Time to breathe in and let everything out
That I’ve wanted to say for so many years
Time to to release all my held back tears

Whatever you’re doing inside of me
It feels like chaos but I believe
You’re up to something bigger than me
Larger than life something heavenly

Whatever you’re doing inside of me
It feels like chaos but now I can see
This something bigger than me
Larger than life something heavenly
Something heavenly

It’s time to face up
Clean this old house
Time breathe in and let everything out

Children’s Baptism Celebration

chellejd — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 03:23:25 +0000

We decided to switch up the way we do children’s baptisms. We’re holding a celebration just for children this upcoming Sunday to celebrate this milestone in their lives. Following worship on Sunday, the children who have responded and their families with guests are invited to a picnic at our local park. We’ll grill hot dogs, have chips and drinks and a cake. Then we are baptizing the children in the river at the park. We’ve had 7 children respond to this need and are beyond excited about it! I think that having the children have their own baptism celebration takes the intimidation and fear out of it. It is a special day just for them and they are thrilled. God is awesome and I am so excited as these children make this incredible decision to live for Jesus. How do you do baptisms for children once they accept Jesus as Lord?

living a creative life

chellejd — Sat, 30 Aug 2008 12:49:20 +0000

I recently read a wonderful book, “The Creative Family” by Amanda Blake Soule that challenged me to look at creativity daily in new ways and to make living it intentional. Whether it is within my family, personally, or professionally there are many ways in day to day living to foster creativity.

Creativity is authored by God. Just look at creation! From the species of plants and animals to the differences in humans – God was creative. Creativity isn’t just being artistic or being crafty, but finding the beauty and ability to observe and explore in anything. Creating art is part of it, but so is nature. Celebrations, special days, rituals, etc. all create a climate of creativity.

Its funny how in ministry to children we get “crafty” yet how often do we incorporate nature into learning? We read Bible passages or stories, but how often do children interact with the characters and live through the scenes? We sing worship songs, but how often do children experience worship.

Thinking creatively may be a stretch for some – so start small. Find something personally that you enjoy and be creative. Explore artwork, different genres of music, go hiking, observe a child… When I intentionally observe my children I realize the creative world in which they live – from making up games, to creative play, to creating artwork.

Children are creative beings. They need this in order to learn and in order to grow and mature. God is a creative God. I believe that teaching his word to children (and adults!) should be as He would – and that would be with a boost of thinking out of the box, unordinary learning!

Lessons from my 4 year old…

chellejd — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 04:19:59 +0000

Cade, my 4 year old, wanted to color a picture. That’s cool, kids love to color right? So I got him a piece of construction paper and some markers and away he went. A basic task like coloring should be predictable, right? Paper, markers, and a 4 year old = scribbled mess and mommy’s masterpiece, right? That is what I expected, but Cade soon diverted from the plan.

Cade got a hold of a post-it note pad with stars printed on it and thought to decorate his paper with the post-it notes. After precisely applying every note he wanted to display his art in his room. He asked for some tape and Igave him the scotch tape. The pictures below are what resulted.

I really was inspired to think. What I had expected was not at all what Cade produced. It was awesome! He secured his portrait to the wall beside his bed with an entire roll of tape.

As a church leader we need to be inspired to step outside the confines of what is expected, and lead creatively. Too many churches are exactly the same as they were 20 or even 50 years ago. How are you creatively doing and being the church?

Second, always over do it. Over plan, over execute, over communicate, always over do it. In church world there is a tendency to do just enough instead of our very best. Maybe we would see God move if we actually planned for it instead of simply complaining when we didn’t see it. This is especially true when a church or organization wants to create momentum. If you don’t anticipate and plan for the unseen growth you will never see it. If you don’t plan for and create space for people that are not a part of your church you will never see them, and if you do, they won’t be back next week.

intimidated by unfamiliarity

chellejd — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 02:19:27 +0000

I realized something last night about myself — I tend to not follow through with large tasks or changes because underneath it all I am intimidated by their unfamiliarity. For example — we are considering homeschooling our children. I feel almost like I haven’t taken the decision seriously, researched it much, or even have my mind solidly decided on what to do. The reason why is because I am overwhelmed by the decision – the information – the challenge. The decision is huge and I don’t even know where to start, to I procrastinate, not doing anything, and pushing the thoughts further back.

After realizing this last night, I was able to see other areas in my life where I have done the same thing – ministry included. I have set aside the new programming I know I should do because it is the best thing because I am overwhelmed with recruiting workers or rearranging/rethinking what I do. I have let go of a great outreach event because I am intimidated by the work at hand in order to get it done or because it is unfamiliar to me. The list goes on.

I need to remember that I serve a God who sees this. One, He calls me to excellence. He does not want me to sell myself short for this. Secondly, I have the God who created the universe cheering me on. I can put my trust in Him to show me the way, give me boldness in my steps, and make it seem as familiar as I’ve been doing it all along.

Are there areas in your life that you set aside and don’t follow through with due to intimidation of the task or unfamiliarity?

What’s on the horizon for Children’s Ministry?

chellejd — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 02:00:08 +0000

So it seems as if the most current trend for Children’s Ministry has been this shift to “Family Ministry” with a large emphasis put upon “family production” for those who are in churches with the resources to do one. I am an advocate of family ministry, although I have found it difficult to fully integrate our church into an “Orange” type model without a family production. We simply do not have the resources at this time to execute one with quality.

But I was thinking yesterday as I heard of another church in our area starting a family service…what is on the horizon as the next trend in ministry for families and children? I wish I could have a looking glass into the future to catch a glimpse of it. It’s difficult to be one step ahead of innovation rather than recreating what someone else is doing. I know not to recreate the wheel…there are so many resources out there….but for some things it seems like once you get it, and implement it, we’re onto the next big thing.

Some hot growing topics that could inspire the next trend — technology, social networking, even more production-based learning, etc. What do you think???

transition to 2 services

chellejd — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 01:54:11 +0000

It looks like in the possible future we may be switching from a Sunday School/Church format to dropping Sunday School to add another service. We’re looking at ideas. I am thrilled to be dropping Sunday School. Already this past year I have switched our children’s ministry from a Sunday School mindset to a small group one. Now I am curious as to what two services may look like for us in the Children’s Ministry. If you have 2 (or more) services, what do you do? How do you implement what you’re doing with the kids during the hours? WHat curriculum or programming do you do? Do you involved a family production? Do you implement small groups? Fill me with info!!